Saturday, 3 December 2011

Considering My Thank-Yous


      So, I fully intended to write this Thursday (Thanksgiving) and instead wrote it last Saturday. I even started on it but other things got in the way. No such things as excuses, right, just poor planning? I embrace that sound logic and it is definitely true in this instance. Anyway, Happy Thanksgiving … two days ago, or whenever this happens under your eyes.
I made a peanut butter cream-type filling.
      I was planning all week to make soup for Thursday night. I was actually planning on making a large pot and taking it to one of my local families. Sadly, they were all busy and doing things other places. It didn't really bother me, except that I really wanted to cook for some people.
      While making the soup for myself I was reviewing the things I should and am thankful for. You see, I had busied my mind all day with mindless things. I'm thankful for the normal/usual things: family, close friends, God, and Amy. Locally, the opportunity I have and am within and the kind people it brings. Stepping back to the end of the last paragraph, I was reminded of the person who instilled such a desire: to cook for people; to really like it and even so far as to desire to cook for many people. A desire that's quenched by seeing the joy the people get from eating the food prepared. As taught, I know that joy can be revealed in many, different, and subtle ways.
Just get creative.
      This person, a crazy-strange Hawaiian-Asian, who is shorter than I yet commands a greater presence quite easily. A man who has been known to cause fear in adults and reverence in children (not by physical means, mind you) – that's who I have to thank for the love of cooking, the craving to cook for people. Four years ago I couldn't sauté onions, crack an egg with one hand, cut watermelon safely, or fathom being able to make pizza sauce from scratch. At least three of those may seem rather easy, but nor could I comprehend making a well-received curry, finding it easy to cook for ninety alone, being a head cook, or being apart of the management team for my childhood retreat, Big Lake Youth Camp. Considering all of this, and that he is counted among the great friends that I mentioned earlier, I am specifically thankful for John Rivera in this moment.
This isn't normal, but it's welcomed.


      I suppose I haven't mentioned anything of my class, yet. I also must be thankful for them. Twelve kids in all, five 3rd and seven 4th graders; only a quarter of the class is girls. If they've taught me anything thus far, it's patience and creativity for coming up with different angles of attack – not in the physical sense, of course, but the... intangible: the way in which I teach them things. It's probably against some law to mention their names here, so know that they are all different and good in their own way and (a lot of the time) at their own leisure. From eight-thirty in the morning until three they are mine. Bible, Math, English, Science, (Lunch), Social Studies, Spelling, Reading, and PE. Math and English are the most hassle because they have different books for each grade. Science and Social are the hardest for me to get them to retain.
One of my kids tree-climbing.
      One thing that caused me much stress was getting here late. It couldn't be prevented from happening, but that doesn't lessen its effect in any way. I arrived here half way through first quarter and you can imagine the complications that caused in teaching kids that were already adjusted to a teacher for the year. Not only that, but the teacher had a completely different teaching style than I. Of course, not as if I had a teaching style, seeing that I'd never taught before. As clichéd as the analogy is, I really had to train old dogs new tricks. I'm still battling with their old habits, but they are learning. As time goes on, I add new rules that I come up with myself or have pulled from The Essential 55 by Ron Clark (brilliant teacher). My creativity was really activated after reading that book.
They really like to collect them.
      One of the things that struck me as silly, or foreign, was the fact that they rarely had homework. When I say rarely, I mean once every two weeks – maybe. I've broken that for the most part, but I still get an exclaimed we! (kind of like “whey” but less on the “ay” and more on the “eh”) every now and then. According to their dictionary it is an “exclamation of repentance or surprise.” So, basically whenever they don't like something I hear it. This just causes me to laugh sinisterly under my breath. Cruel, right? Another humorous thing I hear frequently, used as a form of complaining about assigned work, “We're tired!” “Well, I guess you should've slept more last night.” It's a hard life, right? Honestly, all I can do is smile (=]). My hope is that they will be better kids when they finish in May, both scholastically and in dealing with life's different circumstances. By the time that is achieved, I'm sure the kids will have taught me, or ingrained in me, many important lessons. For that, I'll be forever thankful.

5 comments:

  1. Well it sounds like you are doing great with your kids. I will talk with the 3rd and 4th grade teacher here and the Principal about the Pen-pal writing this week. And I have already sent piano books in box 4 or 5 so hopefully you will get those soon. And let me know what date you get your Christmas box, so we can narrow it down to see how long it take to get a box.

    Luvs Mum

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  2. hahah TRAVIS! I was laughing the whole time I was reading this! I totally agree with what you said about John. You can't help but be thankful for him. I was just thinking the other day that he taught me so much that I am grateful for even in his craziness.

    You are in my prayers!

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  3. Well here it is Christmas eve. We're all wondering what and how you are doing. It is not the same with you so far away yet what you are doing is a blessing to all of us! I love you buddy! God will always shelter and hold you close. Merry Christmas!
    Dad

    "Some may come and some may go
    We shall surely pass
    When the one that left us here
    Returns for us at last
    We are but a moment's sunlight
    Fading in the grass

    Come on people now
    Smile on your brother
    Everybody get together
    Try to love one another
    Right now"

    The Youngbloods, "Get together" 1967

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  4. Well Trav, it's Christmas eve and all is well.... Alisha wasn't able to get us a tree this year so Mom broke out the Charlie Brown tree again LOL but all the gifts fit under it anyway. Hope you have received your Christmas box by now and you can make use of all the things that I squeezed in there. When kids go back to school in January, Kourtney's teacher is going to be doing the Pen Pal thing with the class. She did two years of Missionary Teaching and she is all excited about it, so hope it goes well. So hope to see some new pictures of your adventures soon.....

    Luvs Mum

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